Thursday, 1 July 2004 - 11:07 AM PDT

Are you on drugs or something?
Cheez girl!
I applaud you for taking the initiative, cause a lot of guys nowadays are afraid to ask.
However I feel you are making a big mistake. What are your reasons for enetering into this commitment? You hardly know each other.
And worst of all, he has a family that you are helping to destroy. Actually it looks quite suspicious if you ask me. First, here is a guy who is totally irresponsible. He got some gal pregnant and lived with her for three years, but didn't marry her. He got her pregnant again and decides to marry someone else. What a loser!
He doesn't want you that much. You're just a toy for him to play with. He is after your money, plain and simple. And it appears that Shar is in on the deal, cause instead of being outraged like any normal woman would be, she is looking forward to joining you in one big happy family. Give me a break! That just sucks. It reeks of collusion. Get out of there, while there is still life in you.
Your reasons for getting married are probably just as shallow as they were for Jason. You are fighting your career vs. the stable family lifestyle all your friends that have been married recently are enjoying. You feel like the old maid in your former peer group who hasn't done it yet. Well, my advice for you is don't do it with this creep. You can do much better than this.